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Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.
Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Latest Episodes
Rewind: Your Best Sex Isn't Behind You | Susan Bratton
Some conversations stay with you long after you hit stop recording.This is one of those conversations for me.I'm bringing back my interview with Susan Bratton, and I am not exaggerating when I say this is one of my favorite interv...
Rewind: Jealousy, Compersion & the Messy Truth About Non-Monogamy with Dirty Lola
Some of my favorite conversations on this podcast are the ones where we stop trying to make non-monogamy look perfect and just talk about what it's actually like.This is absolutely one of those episodes.For this Rewind, I'm bringi...
Rewind: How to Build Secure Polyamorous Relationships | Jessica Fern & David Cooley
Some conversations are just too good to stay buried in the archives.This week I'm bringing back one of my absolute favorite episodes with Jessica Fern, author of Polysecure, and David Cooley, co-author of Polywise. Even...
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Growing Up in a Polyamorous Family | A Conversation with Koe Creation
What is it actually like to grow up in a polyamorous family?There are plenty of opinions about how non-monogamy affects children, but very few of those opinions come from people who actually lived it.In this re-released episode of...
Rewind: Wilder on Closed Triads, Poly Families & Living Authentically, EP. 161
Some conversations are simply too good to leave in the archives.This week I'm re-releasing one of my favorite early episodes with my dear friend, Wilder. Even years later, this conversation feels just as relevant. We dive into wha...
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Fan Mail
Loved hearing the safer sex speech! Loved the flow. Loved how it gave a real person “real life” example. Loved how it normalized the convo. So much fun!
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