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Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.
Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Latest Episodes
Rewind: Wilder on Closed Triads, Poly Families & Living Authentically, EP. 161
Some conversations are simply too good to leave in the archives.This week I'm re-releasing one of my favorite early episodes with my dear friend, Wilder. Even years later, this conversation feels just as relevant. We dive into wha...
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What Nobody Teaches You About Polycule Dynamics with Red DeRooy and Stacey Smith?
Most conversations about non-monogamy focus on opening a relationship, navigating jealousy, or finding new partners.But what happens after that?How do you navigate a polycule where relationships are constantly evolving? How do you...
The Courage to Show Up: Sex Positivity and Finding Your People with Jamie Love, EP. 159
What if the thing you're craving most isn't another dating app, another relationship book, or another set of rules?What if it's community?In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, Ellecia sits down with Jamie Love, E...
Compersion Isn’t Mandatory, EP. 158
Do you ever feel like everyone else in polyamory got the compersion memo except you?Like you're supposed to be thrilled when your partner is excited about someone else... and if you're not, maybe you're doing non-monogamy wrong?In...
How to Talk About Jealousy Without Starting a Fight, EP. 157
Have you ever rehearsed a hard conversation in your head… and then the second you try to have it, everything comes out wrong?Maybe you shut down.Maybe you get defensive.Maybe you try so hard not to sound “too much” that you stop ...
Fan Mail
Thank you for this episode, thank you for letting me know about Kyra’s experience. I’ve been really enjoying your podcast, this episode was the cherry on top of the cake, being a person of color, trying to navigate this whole new polyamory world. Thanks Kyra, you’re beautiful and you’re not alone. Your words were inspiring and gave me strength.
Jersey
